Before & Afer "I DO"...
Sunday, May 3, 2009
It was a full house attendance..
when SAN 1 & 2 came together on 5th Dec..
Two special couples share with us..
their courtship & marriage experiences..
Before that,we have a fun time playing a time of worship..
After that,all eyes & ears were on
David Ang & Francessa
Terry Lau & Catherine
As their love story unfolds..
Before “I do” (courtship)
*When being in single status, have joy in the Lord till He provides direction
*Pray for God to provide a life partner of same faith
*When there’s intention to go into a relationship, be focus on one “boat”
*In a relationship, respect each other
*Have God to be the center of the relationship
After “I do” (marriage)
A. The “tomato” illustration
*In shopping cart,normally tomato is put on top of other many items
= In a marriage, after God, put spouse as one of your top priority
*Tomato when left unattended will wither and color will fade
= Spouse needs to be given special attention
*Tomato is to be eaten
= Spouse needs to be “maintained”
After “I do” (marriage)
A. The “tomato” illustration
*In shopping cart,normally tomato is put on top of other many items
= In a marriage, after God, put spouse as one of your top priority
*Tomato when left unattended will wither and color will fade
= Spouse needs to be given special attention
*Tomato is to be eaten
= Spouse needs to be “maintained”
B. Adjusting to each other’s habits and personality
*Do un-seemingly small deeds that touch the spouse’s heart
(eg:like mopping floor, washing dishes..grin^^)
C. Don’t bring up the past; forgive and forget
D. Don’t let the sun go down before a disagreement is settled
The sharing ended with prayers by Ps Tim..
The nite ended with refreshments..
Thanks Janet & Shi Wei for preparing it..
(05.12.2008)
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